Understanding money, one blog at a time

Once the smoke cleared, one of the very first things I had to do was take accountability.  Although I had not done a huge portion of the things I was charged with, I did have to take responsibility for whatever role I played: knowingly or unknowingly. Life was a whirlwind adjusting to life as a single parent.  I had to move fast enrolling the kids in daycare so that I could continue to work. I had to be mom and dad during the week.  My husband made bond and would have the kids on the weekend.  Which was a huge relief for me. One Saturday in June 2016 while the kids were with their dad,  I sat down in bed and wrote ‘$10,000 by July 24th” (no year) on an orange sticky note and posted it on my wall. I saw it every time I woke up and every time I went to sleep. This sticky note was now my accountability partner.  I couldn't let it, or myself down :). BTW, I’m here to tell you that $10,000 is not a lot of money. But to me, it was. I had $48.00 in the bank a...

This past year and a half has completely turned my life upside down.  I am now ready to share my story in hopes that I can be an inspiration. Life is full of ups and downs.  But we always have a choice.  I am bringing my story in 3 parts. This is part one: It was May 10th 2016.  I had a dream the previous night. One of those lucid dreams that felt so real it stayed with me throughout the day.  The dream was that my husband set me up.  He shot me 5 times and instead of getting to the hospital, I was trying to get to the courthouse to file a divorce.  Those words divorce kept ringing louder and louder in the dream.  I woke up that morning and everything was normal.  I got dressed, kissed my husband and 9 month old daughter, dropped my 7 year old off at school then went on in to work.  I was self employed running by business full time.  Life was good. That evening, I came home and relieved my husband from daddy duty. He didn't work...